troubles with girlfriends. need help!

[meiguorach]

Mmk, I'm a girl, cutting in on this guy chat. But I thought that, since I am a girl myself, I might be a little helpful.

First off, I'd like to say that I personally don't advise dating a girl just to be able to say that you've dated. I was taught that dating was preparation for marriage, a time to try to find your mate. But even without that, a I wouldn't want to date a guy who simply wanted to date because it was the fashionable thing to do, and/or because he was made fun of for not dating.

Second, do you really need a girlfriend before going to college? I'm 18 and I've never ever ever had a boyfriend. Again, I believe dating is preparation for marriage, but even if I didn't, I'm still glad I haven't had all the drama most of my gal friends have gone through. Sure, I liked a couple of guys, but I enjoyed being young. You don't need a girlfriend.

Finally, if you're still set on getting a girlfriend, just be yourself. A girl doesn't like someone who tries to be just like every other guy. Only date girls who like you for you, and not for someone you're not. Also, before dating a girl, become her friend. Relationships built off of friendships are the best kind there are... So yep. Be yourself. And respect her. And act on that respect.

[Demitri]

txs for advice but still its not that i want one jst to say i have one. almost everyone at my school hates me for i dont know why and i jst want to be loved . i will respect her . help her. and most important love her.

[meiguorach]

Everybody at your school is probably just jealous of your awesomeness.

[Shadowstar1922]

txs for advice but still its not that i want one jst to say i have one. almost everyone at my school hates me for i dont know why and i jst want to be loved . i will respect her . help her. and most important love her.

You have some really messed up friends if people hate you for not having a girlfriend. No offense to your friends, but they must not be that smart. Maybe you should look for friends who won't hate you for not having a girlfriend.

[Rainshard]

I perposely act like an asshole to girls because I dont want Drama in my life.

Thats the exact opposite of what I do. Well I like a little drama.

[Lamb]

I perposely act like an asshole to girls because I dont want Drama in my life.

Thats the exact opposite of what I do. Well I like a little drama.

-.- If you impregnant a girl by "accident" Expect a little drama
xD

[Shadowstar1922]

I perposely act like an asshole to girls because I dont want Drama in my life.

Lol, I had to resort to that xD

I'm sure a lot of guys do that for the same reason.

I have to do that a couple of times a year.... sucks how im asked by girls i dont like,and how they then act like ...Female dogs...To me after wards

I know how you feel. Girls can't drop a grudge for their life. While guys, can drop one in a couple minutes and forgive someone for like, a fight or something. It's rediculous.

[Lamb]

.... (to be decided)...

[meiguorach]

I know how you feel. Girls can't drop a grudge for their life. While guys, can drop one in a couple minutes and forgive someone for like, a fight or something. It's rediculous.

Lol, hey now. I'm a girl and I can't hold a grudge to save my life. lol

[mmm]

I know how you feel. Girls can't drop a grudge for their life. While guys, can drop one in a couple minutes and forgive someone for like, a fight or something. It's rediculous.

Lol, hey now. I'm a girl and I can't hold a grudge to save my life. lol

I think it's just a generalization. Don't you think it's funny though, how guys can get in a physical fight and knock the mess out of each other and then become friends?